Here is a question of the type I get on a regular basis from people who struggle with many external influences in their lives.
My (spouse) thinks I should just get a real job and forget about Network Marketing. He is getting tired of me ordering different plans and really not finding one that works. There is something about it that really appeals to me and I am always looking to see what I can find. I know this will work and I’m just not ready to give up on it yet. I would appreciate any information you can give me. Hope to hear from you soon. LW, St Elmo, IL
It appears to me without talking with you, you have a strong ‘why’ and that you’re determined to find the right solution. So…
With regards to the different “plans” you talk about…
- What part or parts of the different plans you have been using and rejecting, are not working for you?
- What parts of them are working?
Write your answers down in two columns… “What works for me” – “What doesn’t work for me”.
If what isn’t working outweighs what is, then search for a plan that has got more of what is working.
Then STICK to it! Put your head down and set yourself a goal of talking with x amount of people a day – seeing if you can help them get what they want so that you can ultimately get what you want? You do this no matter what!
Sticking to it requires discipline, a word which many define as restrictive and the opposite to freedom. HOWEVER, like most conventional thinking – this is simply NOT true!
With discipline comes freedom.
“It was character that got us out of bed, commitment that moved us into action, and discipline that enabled us to follow through.”
As for your spouse telling you to get a job… it’s understandable, and ultimately the choice is yours. You have to do what you have to do. It’s either settle by working for someone else, or establish your own security by taking your own path to financial, personal, mental and spiritual freedom. Find your own truth!
In my book “How To Sell Network Marketing Without Fear, Anxiety Or Losing Your Friends!” I include this comment…
“Find your own truth, by shedding the truths of others that prevent you from having the freedom and abundance that is your universal right.”
Perhaps you could ask your spouse for help in this. I’m sure your spouse is just as interested as you are in wanting you to be successful and happy!
To help you along the way I wrote for you my best selling book or if you’re an audio type of person you can download “How to Have Fearless Conversations without Fear or Anxiety“.
There is no right or wrong to whatever you do. The secret is to find what FEELS right for you and then ACT on it… taking 1000% responsibility for your own success allowing no one to get in the way.